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Pro-family or pro-baby?

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by Howard Lee

Much seems to have been said recently about the effectiveness of our baby bonus scheme, and all indications of our total fertility rate seem to indicate that it is a failure.

This administration’s quick-switch policies pertaining population management must have been bewildering to most. My sister and I were born in the “stop at two” era, we witnessed the “have three or more if you can afford it” campaign in our early adult lives, and our children are now born in the “we’ll import babies if we have to” era. It’s ridiculous.

To me, recent efforts to establish a positive population growth rate fail because they are pro-baby. That is, they see babies as a product, and applying the crude concepts of production, incentives were offered to increase productivity. The baby bonus is not an innovative idea. It relegates the womb to a production line.

It is also ironic when we realise that declining birth rate is a common trait among developed countries, which is usually synonymous with higher education and greater affluence among its population. Throwing money will only do so much, really.

The significant change would actually be if policies switch from being pro-baby to being pro-family. Unless we recognise the importance of the family and how it acts as the centre for children, no amount of incentives will lead to its development.

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Let’s be clear – it is not about having children, but about building and enhancing the family. We need to address issues that are preventing the family from developing, rather than focus on why people are not having babies.

To be honest, I have not come across clear evidence in other countries to indicate that being pro-family might work, but if what we are doing now is neither innovative nor working, then it is really time we consider alternatives.

Recently, AWARE seemed to have pointed us in the right direction, by proposing the mandate of paternity leave for working fathers. I am generally skeptical about AWARE’s objectives, and tend to believe that their latest venture has stronger interests in gender equality rather than family building. Nevertheless, the idea of making things easier for fathers in specific and the family by extension resonates with being pro-family, and it should be applauded for its direction, deliberate or not.

At the very least, such inclinations should set the tone for this administration to seriously reassess its position on population management. For once, perhaps the engineers that have been running this country might do better by consulting the social scientists.

What could be other possible steps to take in enhancing family life? I’d like to get the ball rolling here, but I will not be proposing solutions for reducing the cost of living, as I believe most of those who cite this as a reason for delaying family building seldom face this as a dire issue; rather, other social and environmental issues are more at play. In any case, “money and children” is a horse that has been flogged to death/deaf.

Instead, I’d rather focus on aspects that will make a difference to our quality of life, such that we would find it less demanding to have children. If you have more ideas, do add your contributions in the comments.

1) De-stress the education system – I have heard horror stories of school teachers recommending tuition to parents. As a parent, it frightens me to think we need to manage this pressure cooker, which is as detrimental to our selves as it is to the well-being of our beloved children.

2) Clear laws to prevent discrimination against parents at the workplace – I’m not talking about mere employment guidelines or case-by-case basis lawsuits. Parents, both male and female, leaving early to tend to their children should not be deemed less productive than their counterparts, and we need to give them real teeth against employers who see it their right to appraise them without full consideration for their lives outside of working hours.

3) Make things easy for the grandparents – I cannot imagine coping without the dedication of my parents in looking after my son, and no words can express my gratitude. Forget hired domestic helpers. Nothing beats having family to care for family. But grandparenting cannot happen on a full-time basis unless they retire, and pushing back our retirement age is a major step in the wrong direction in activating this family-support system. On the lighter side, concessions at attractions during working hours for “grand-outings” might serve to encourage grandparents to help out in child-minding.

4) More space – It is perhaps a crazy thought to ask for this in our urban squeeze. But if I feel the stress of a more compact society, everywhere and everyday, without reprieve from either my own home or common spaces, why would I even think of adding to that congestion? Meanwhile, our public housing policies are making our homes smaller, urban development might be going vertical yet increasing in density, and we are still increasing the (mainly adult) population size via immigration.

These deliberations suggest hard policy decisions, none that one government agency alone can make, and certainly a lot more difficult to implement than throwing out goodies with budget surpluses. But they are pro-family efforts, and something parents will appreciate.

And after all this, it will still depend on a mindset change by couples to make that leap of faith. But pushing ahead with these changes will, I believe, lessen the emotional stress that parents and parents-to-be face in our society, so that they can really give parenthood a proper consideration. We do not need money to love our little ones, but we sure could do with more time, understanding and mutual support to make it blossom.

The writer is dad to a feisty two-year-old, and has another one in waiting.

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Ng Eng Hen: Dust clouds likely caused armoured vehicle collision during Exercise Wallaby

Dust clouds limiting visibility likely contributed to the collision between two Hunter vehicles during Exercise Wallaby, Defence Minister Ng Eng Hen explained in his parliamentary reply. 12 servicemen sustained mild injuries, but safety measures prevented more serious outcomes. A formal investigation is ongoing to ensure further safety improvements.

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SINGAPORE: Low visibility caused by dust clouds was identified as the likely cause of the collision between two Hunter armoured fighting vehicles (AFVs) during Exercise Wallaby last month, Defence Minister Ng Eng Hen said in a written parliamentary response on Tuesday (15 October).

The incident, which occurred in Queensland, Australia, on 24 September 2024, resulted in mild injuries to 12 servicemen.

Dr Ng’s statement was in response to a parliamentary question from Mr Dennis Tan, Workers’ Party Member of Parliament for Hougang SMC.

Mr Tan asked for details on the accident, specifically its cause and whether any lessons could be applied to enhance training and operational safety within the Singapore Armed Forces (SAF).

The collision took place during a night-time movement of Hunter AFVs at the Shoalwater Bay Training Area.

The vehicles were returning to base when one rear-ended another. Dr Ng explained that the dust clouds generated by the AFVs’ movement significantly impaired visibility, might likely contributing to the accident.

The 12 affected servicemen sustained mild injuries and were promptly taken to the nearest medical facility.

None of the injuries required hospitalisation, and all 12 servicemen were able to rejoin their units for training the next day.

According to the minister, adherence to safety protocols—such as wearing seat belts and protective gear—played a crucial role in limiting the injuries to mild ones.

Following the incident, a safety pause was immediately implemented, with all drivers being reminded to maintain proper safety distances, especially when visibility was compromised.

Troops were also reminded to adhere strictly to safety protocols, including the proper use of safety equipment, Dr Ng added.

The safety lessons from the incident were shared not only with the affected units but also with other participating groups in the exercise, as well as units back in Singapore, through dedicated safety briefings.

Mr Tan also asked about the broader implications of the incident. In his response, Dr Ng said that a formal investigation had been launched in accordance with SAF’s safety incident protocol.

The investigation aims to assess the circumstances more thoroughly and identify any further measures that could be taken to enhance safety.

Dr Ng shared that recommendations arising from the investigation will be implemented where necessary.

Exercise Wallaby is SAF’s largest unilateral overseas exercise, and the 2024 edition began on 8 September, running until 3 November.

The exercise involves approximately 6,200 personnel, including 500 operationally ready national servicemen.

The exercise has been conducted at Shoalwater Bay Training Area in Queensland since 1990, and it is a key part of SAF’s overseas training program.

The Hunter AFV, one of the vehicles involved in the collision, is a state-of-the-art platform jointly developed by the Defence Science and Technology Agency, the Singapore Army, and ST Engineering.

It replaced the SAF’s aging fleet of Ultra M113 AFVs in 2019, which had been in service since the 1970s. The Hunter is equipped with advanced features, including a 30mm cannon, a 76mm smoke grenade launcher, and an automatic target detection and

tracking system designed to enhance operational effectiveness. It is also capable of traveling at increased speeds and covering longer distances, making it a versatile asset for the SAF.

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Government to “carefully consider” Lee Hsien Yang’s demolition application for 38 Oxley Road

The Singapore Government will “carefully consider” Mr Lee Hsien Yang (LHY)’s application to demolish the house at 38 Oxley Road. LHY announced his intent on Tuesday morning following the recent death of his sister, Dr Lee Wei Ling, reaffirming his commitment to honour his parents’ wish for the house’s demolition.

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The Singapore Government has indicated that it will “carefully consider” Mr Lee Hsien Yang’s (LHY) application to demolish the family home at 38 Oxley Road.

LHY, the youngest son of Singapore’s founding Prime Minister, the late Lee Kuan Yew (LKY), announced his intention to apply for the demolition in a Facebook post on 15 October 2024, following the death of his sister, Dr Lee Wei Ling, on 9 October.

The announcement marks a significant development in the ongoing saga over the fate of the historically significant property, which has been at the heart of a family dispute since LKY’s passing in 2015.

In his will, executed in December 2013, LKY expressed his desire for the house to be demolished “immediately after” Dr Lee moved out of the property. Dr Lee, a prominent neurologist, had been the last remaining resident of the house.

LHY reaffirmed his commitment to carrying out his father’s wishes, stating, “After my sister’s passing, I am the only living executor of my father’s estate. It is my duty to carry out his wishes to the fullest extent of the law.”

He added that he would seek to build a small private dwelling on the site, which would be “held within the family in perpetuity”.

LHY also referenced his brother, Senior Minister Lee Hsien Loong’s (LHL) remarks in Parliament in 2015, when he was Prime Minister, stating that upon Dr Lee’s passing, the decision to demolish the house would rest with the “Government of the day.”

In response to media queries regarding LHY’s announcement, a spokesperson for the Ministry of National Development (MND) acknowledged the intended application and emphasised that the Government would “carefully consider issues related to the property in due course”.

The spokesperson also highlighted that any decision would need to balance LKY’s wishes, public interest, and the historical value of the house.

The house at 38 Oxley Road, where key decisions about Singapore’s path to independence were made, has been a focal point of public and political discussion.

The future of the house became contentious in 2017 when LHY and Dr Lee publicly accused their elder brother, LHL, of trying to preserve the house against their father’s wishes for political reasons.

LHL denied the accusations, issuing a Ministerial Statement in Parliament, where he also raised concerns over the preparation of their father’s final will. He clarified that he had recused himself from all decisions regarding the property and affirmed that any government action would be impartial.

In 2018, a “secret” ministerial committee, which was formed in 2016 to study the future of 38 Oxley Road, proposed three options: preserving the property and designating it as a national monument, partially demolishing the house while retaining the historically significant basement dining room, or allowing complete demolition for redevelopment. LHL accepted the committee’s conclusions but stated that no immediate decision was necessary, as Dr Lee was still living in the house.

In a statement conveyed by LHY on behalf of Dr Lee after her passing, she reiterated her strong support for her father’s wish to demolish the house. “My father, Lee Kuan Yew, and my mother, Kwa Geok Choo, had an unwavering and deeply felt wish for their house at 38 Oxley Road to be demolished upon the last parent’s death,” the statement read.

She added, “He had also appealed directly to the people of Singapore. Please honour my father by honouring his wish for his home to be demolished.”

Despite selling the house to LHY at market value in 2015, LHL’s stance regarding the house’s preservation became a public issue, especially after the family disclosed that the Government had raised concerns about reinstating the demolition clause in the 2013 will. The ministerial committee had reviewed the matter, but a final decision was deferred until now.

The fate of 38 Oxley Road remains to be seen, but the Government’s decision will likely have lasting implications for the legacy of the Lee family and the conservation of Singapore’s historical landmarks.

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