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When the recession hit us last year, the worldwide economic landscape was dire indeed. Singapore, being an open economy, was the first Asian country to go into recession – with more than 100,000 people losing their jobs. Government officials and Members of Parliament warned of tougher times ahead, and ordinary Singaporeans were unsure of what the future held.

In a little corner of this island, however, one person was wondering if he could do anything to lift the spirits of Singaporeans. He came up with a simple idea – little yellow coloured post-its or notes with words of encouragement placed in public areas. For the last 525 days, he has been placing these notes around town and in HDB heartlands, one per day.

“Don’t follow your dreams, chase them”, Don’t look down on somebody unless you’re helping him up”, “Stand for something or you’ll fall for anything”, “Rise determined, sleep satisfied”, “Anger is one letter short of danger”, “Don’t confuse money with wealth”, are some of the messages on the posters.

His blog, aptly named, “Things We Forget”, keeps an archive of his works.

In an interview with The Online Citizen, the person, who wishes to remain anonymous, says, “I wanted to do something that would remind me and those around me that a positive attitude is permanent and troubles are temporary.”

With almost 22,000 fans on his Facebook page at the time of this writing, clearly his works have touched quite a few people. “I once got an email from a girl who said she’d decided to give her boyfriend another chance because of one of the notes,” he says. “Another lady wrote saying that my notes helped her come to terms with the loss of a limb.”

It may be a small thing to do but it may just make the world a little better, he hopes.

He plans to have these words of encouragement printed on calendars, t-shirts and he is also contemplating an iPhone application.

So, the next time you come across one of these notes, hopefully it’ll remind you of some of the things which you may have forgotten.

Here is TOC’s interview with the person behind the notes.

How did the idea come about?

I thought of the idea bang in the middle of the recession last year when the general mood was one of pessimism and despair. I wanted to do something that would remind me and those around me that a positive attitude is permanent and troubles are temporary.

Where do you derive your inspiration for the words?

I’m inspired by the things that happen to me each day. The notes are as much a reminder to myself as to others. I’m also inspired by what’s going on in the world, by things i read and hear.

How long have you been doing this?

Well, for 525 days today.

What do you hope this will achieve?

I hope they will make me, those that read the notes and the world slightly better.

What keeps u going?

A lot of people write me emails or leave comments to the notes or on the Facebook page saying that the notes help them on a daily basis, that they have made their lives a little brighter or made their thoughts a bit more positive. That’s what keeps me going.

What do people think of these notes that you do?

I think most people like them.

All the quotes are positive, is there a particular reason?

I think there’s enough negative stuff around us already. The world needs positivity now.

I see that you post these little notes in various areas around Singapore. How do you choose where to put up the post-its?

I choose the places at random. I usually leave them wherever I happen to be once that day’s note is ready.

Have you received any complaints about the notes?

No.

Are there any particular incidents with the notes you’d like to share? Perhaps, someone was inspired to do something he otherwise might not have, after reading your notes?

Yeah, I once got an email from a girl who said she’d decided to give her boyfriend another chance because of one of the notes. Another lady wrote saying that my notes helped her come to terms with the loss of a limb.

Do you do this alone or is there someone helping you with this?

It’s just me.

Are you planning to have these sayings or words of wisdom printed on t-shirts, greeting cards, mugs, etc?

Yes, I am. I’m planning on doing calendars, tee shirts, iPhone apps etc.

Your Facebook page has almost 22,000 fans. Any comment on this?

I feel very blessed and lucky that so many people like what I do. I’m grateful for their love and support each day.

Which saying is your personal favourite?

“If not this, then what? If not now, then when?”

What is your own motto in life?

Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.

Lastly, may we know your age and name?

Ha ha, I’d rather have the attention focused on the TWF notes.

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Miss Universe cuts ties with Indonesia chapter after harassment allegations

The Miss Universe Organization severs ties with Indonesia franchise due to harassment claims. Malaysia edition canceled.

Women allege body checks before pageant. Investigation launched. Safety prioritized.

Indonesia winner to compete in November finale. Height requirement controversy.

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WASHINGTON, UNITED STATES — The Miss Universe Organization has cut ties with its Indonesia franchise, it announced days after allegations of sexual harassment, and will cancel an upcoming Malaysia edition.

In the complaint, more than a half dozen women said all 30 finalists for Miss Universe Indonesia were unexpectedly asked to strip for a supposed body check for scars and cellulite two days before the pageant’s crowning ceremony in Jakarta.

Their lawyer said Tuesday that five of the women had their pictures taken.

“In light of what we have learned took place at Miss Universe Indonesia, it has become clear that this franchise has not lived up to our brand standards, ethics, or expectations,” the US-based Miss Universe Organization posted Saturday night on social media site X, formerly known as Twitter.

It said that it had “decided to terminate the relationship with its current franchise in Indonesia, PT Capella Swastika Karya, and its National Director, Poppy Capella.”

It thanked the contestants for their bravery in coming forward and added that “providing a safe place for women” was the organization’s priority.

Jakarta police spokesman Trunoyudo Wisnu Andiko said Tuesday that an investigation into the women’s complaint has been launched.

The Indonesia franchise also holds the license for Miss Universe Malaysia, where there will no longer be a competition this year, according to the New York-based parent organizer.

In a lengthy statement posted to Instagram, Indonesia franchise director Capella denied involvement in any body checks.

“I, as the National Director and as the owner of the Miss Universe Indonesia license, was not involved at all and have never known, ordered, requested or allowed anyone who played a role and participated in the process of organizing Miss Universe Indonesia 2023 to commit violence or sexual harassment through body checking,” she wrote.

She added that she is against “any form of violence or sexual harassment.”

The Jakarta competition was held from 29 July to 3 August to choose Indonesia’s representative to the 2023 Miss Universe contest, and was won by Fabienne Nicole Groeneveld.

Miss Universe said it would make arrangements for her to compete in the finale, scheduled for November in El Salvador.

This year’s Indonesia pageant also came under fire for announcing a “significant change in this (year’s) competition guidelines” with the elimination of its minimum height requirement after it had crowned a winner.

In its statement, the Miss Universe Organization said it wanted to “make it extremely clear that there are no measurements such as height, weight, or body dimensions required to join a Miss Universe pageant worldwide.”

— AFP

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A Perodua service centre in Kuantan, Malaysia went viral for its strict dress code, Perodua responds

A dress code for vehicle servicing? A Malaysian car brand’s service centre dress code signage has puzzled netizens, raising queries about the need for attire rules during a routine service.

The manufacturer responded with an official statement after a flurry of comments, seeking to clarify and apologize.

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MALAYSIA: A dress code signage positioned at a service centre belonging to a prominent Malaysian car brand has sparked bewilderment among Malaysian netizens, who question the necessity of adhering to attire guidelines for a simple vehicle servicing.

The signage explicitly delineates clothing items that are deemed unsuitable, including sleeveless tops, short skirts, abbreviated pants, and distressed jeans.

The car manufacturer swiftly found itself flooded with comments from both inquisitive and irked Malaysian netizens. This surge in online activity prompted the company to issue an official statement aimed at clarifying the situation and extending an apology.

In a post that gained significant traction on the social media platform, politician Quek Tai Seong of Pahang State, Malaysia, shared an image to Facebook on Monday (7 Aug).

The image showcased a dress code sign prominently displayed at a Perodua Service Centre in Kuantan. Within the post, Quek posed the question: “Is this dress code applicable nationwide, or is it specific to this branch?”

The signage reads, “All customers dealing with Perodua Service Kuantan 1, Semambu, are requested to dress modestly and appropriately.”

Adding visual clarity to these guidelines, the sign features illustrative graphics that explicitly outline clothing items deemed unacceptable, including sleeveless tops, short skirts, short pants, and ripped jeans.

Delineating the specifics of the dress code, the signage stipulates that male visitors are expected to don shirts accompanied by neckties, opt for long pants, and wear closed shoes.

Conversely, female visitors are advised to don long-sleeved shirts, full-length skirts, and closed-toe footwear.

Perodua’s dress code sparks online uproar

Following the rapid spread of the post, Perodua’s official Facebook page found itself inundated with comments from both intrigued and frustrated Malaysian netizens, all seeking clarifications about the newly surfaced dress code policy.

Amidst the flurry of comments, numerous incensed netizens posed pointed questions such as, “What is the rationale behind the introduction of such regulations by the management? We demand an explanation.”

Another netizen expressed their dissatisfaction, arguing against the necessity of the rule and urging Perodua to take inspiration from the practices of other 4S (Sales, Service, Spare Parts, and Survey) automotive dealerships.

A concerned Facebook user chimed in, advocating for a more lenient stance, asserting that attempting to dictate customers’ clothing choices might not be in the company’s best interest.

Someone also commented in an angry tone, “Oi what is this? Going there for car service, not interview or working, right.”

As the discourse unfolded, it became evident that while some inquiries carried genuine weight, others chose to inject humor into the situation, playfully remarking, “If I wanted to buy a Myvi, I should buy or rent a formal attire first.”

“I sell economy rice at a hawker centre, I have never worn a long sleeve shirt and a tie… I guess I will not buy a Perodua car then.”

“I guess they will not serve those who wear short pants.”

Perodua addresses dress code controversy

As reported by Chinese media outlet Sin Chew Daily News, the manager of Kuantan’s Perodua Service Centre had acknowledged that the images on the dress code signage were misleading.

In response, the manager divulged that discussions had transpired with the head office, leading to the prompt removal of the signage to prevent any further misconceptions.

The manager clarifies, “We do encourage visitors to adhere to the dress etiquette, but we won’t go to the extent of restricting their choice of attire.”

He also revealed that currently, no complaints have been directly received from the public.

However, feedback from certain customers was relayed through Perodua’s agents.

Perodua also released an official statement by chief operating officer JK Rozman Jaffar on Wednesday (9 Aug) regarding the dress code on their official Facebook page.

The statement stated the dress code etiquette is not aligned with their official guidelines and they are currently conducting an official investigation on the matter followed by corrective measures to avoid the same incident from happening.

Perodua also extends its apologies for any inconvenience caused.

 

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