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What Valentine’s Day means to me

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By Deborah Choo

Legend has it that St. Valentine was a Catholic bishop who lived under the reign of Claudius II in Rome. Claudius believed that men who were not married made better soldiers than married men with families. Because of this belief, he dictated a law forbidding men to marry. However, because Valentine did not agree with this law, he wed young couples clandestinely. When Claudius discovered this, he had Valentine thrown into jail. During this time, Valentine fell in love with the jailer’s daughter. His last letter to her before he was beheaded on February 14 was signed “From your Valentine”.

Valentine’s Day has since become a day for lovers to commemorate their love.

This year is my first Valentine’s celebration. But more importantly, this also marks my first month internship with The Online Citizen. So it does indeed call for celebrations.

I remember the first time I joined TOC in late 2008. My first assignment was as a TV presenter. My fellow presenters and I were tasked to hit the Clarke Quay streets to interview people about their New Year resolutions. It was both frightening and exhilarating for I had no TV presentation experience back then. That marked the start of my training as a presenter. But it provided me with the much-needed confidence to audition for the role of a sports presenter in the Youth Olympic Games (YOG). I was subsequently selected and trained under renowned deejay Mark Richmond.

My most memorable assignment with TOC was on the migrant workers series in January 2009. It begun with a visit to a foreign workers dorm at Tagore Lane.

I’ve never seen a foreign workers’ dormitory before, nor was I prepared for what I witnessed: rows of beds –without mattresses – packed so close together with only enough space in between for one person to walk through at any time, the dorm was hot and poorly ventilated; the workers relied on tap water and were sometimes given food that had gone bad.

That was when I met Delowar and wrote his story. The first time I met him, he wore a smile on his face – one I did not expect to see from someone in his predicament. He told me he dreamt of opening a school for the children in his village back in Bangladesh as he felt the need for education was too great. He used to be a teacher. He came to Singapore in the hopes of earning enough money to build the school but ended up being conned by his unscrupulous boss.

Delowar left Singapore with very little compensation. A few months later, a Japanese news network covered his story. The viewers were so moved that they donated money for him to build the school. But such stories are sadly too rare.

Another hallmark of my days with TOC was having the honor to meet Susan Elliott, 57, winner of the 2009 Colorado State Teacher of the Year award and one of the top four finalists for the 2009 National Teacher of the Year. She is Deaf. That effectively launched my series of work with the Deaf of whom I wrote about: Kenichi Wright, Geraldine Kong, Hairaini Ali, Ng Bee Hwa, Rowland Yeo.

All these people taught me one thing: Nothing is impossible.

Because “love” leaves no place for “impossible” on Earth; love is all around.

If not for those compassionate people who donated, Delowar could not have fulfilled his dream.  Because of love for the Deaf alike, people like Susan decided to champion the Deaf rights internationally by first leading with example.  And for the others, their families are their pillar of strength.

This is why I love being a journalist; I’m able to meet people from all walks of life, learn about their lives.

Like Sze Hian once told me, I did grow up with TOC. The things I’ve seen, the skills I picked up, the people I’ve met, changed me forever.

And I believe everyone has a story to tell.

Just like you have heard mine, I would love to hear yours.

So if you would like to share your Valentine’s story with me, do drop me an email.

To all our valued TOC readers – some of whom I had the pleasure of meeting you at our TOC Cassetted party last month – Happy Valentine’s Day!

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Pro-Palestine residents call for sanctions against Israel during meet-the-people session in Punggol-West

Pro-Palestinian supporters from Punggol West engaged MP Sun Xueling at a Meet-the-People Session, urging Singapore to consider sanctions against Israel amid the ongoing crisis that has claimed at least 42,000 Palestinian lives. While Sun highlighted Singapore’s S$17 million in humanitarian aid, residents questioned the effectiveness of aid given the country’s arms trade with Israel.

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SINGAPORE: Marking one year since the Israeli assault on Palestine that claimed over 42,000 lives, on 7 October 2024, pro-Palestinian supporters from Punggol West gathered at a Meet-the-People Session to discuss sanctions against Israel with MP Sun Xueling.

Ms Sun highlighted Singapore’s humanitarian efforts, noting that over S$17 million (approximately US$13 million) had been directed to the region. She called the crisis a “huge human catastrophe” and advocated for an immediate ceasefire.

However, residents questioned the feasibility of a ceasefire given Singapore’s ongoing arms trade with Israel, citing the purchase of Blue Spear missiles for the Navy and the display of Israeli weapons at the Singapore Air Show.  They also pointed out that Israeli defense company Elbit Systems operates in Singapore.

Although Ms Sun was not involved in arms discussions, she promised to raise these concerns with the relevant ministries.

On 2 July 2024, Mr Leong Mun Wai, Non-Constituency Member of Parliament (NCMP) from the Progress Singapore Party, asked the Minister for Foreign Affairs whether Singapore had sold any defence materials to Israel since the conflict began on 7 October 2023.

Minister Dr Vivian Balakrishnan responded that Singapore strictly adheres to international arms sales obligations and submits regular reports to the UN, but does not disclose specifics due to national security reasons. It should be noted that there is no embargo on arms sales to Israel.

On 18 September 2024, Singapore voted in favour of UN General Assembly Resolution A/ES-10/L.31, which called for a halt to imports from Israeli settlements and arms provisions to Israel in situations where they might be used in the Occupied Palestinian Territory. Following this, NCMP Leong filed a question regarding whether Singapore would implement the resolution’s steps.

The session shifted to concerns about a broader conflict, with residents referencing Israel’s ground invasion of Lebanon and Syria and questioning whether sanctions were being considered.

Ms Sun acknowledged their fears and affirmed that the crisis in Gaza was unacceptable.

When asked about sanctions, she explained that the Israel-Palestine conflict is more complex than other international issues, such as the Russia-Ukraine war, but assured residents she would relay their concerns to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs (MFA).

Residents pressed further, questioning whether Israel’s invasion of Lebanon justified sanctions and expressing frustration about a perceived double standard in how invasions in the Middle East are treated compared to those involving predominantly white countries.

Ms Sun noted that Singapore had previously imposed sanctions in other contexts, such as during the US invasion of Grenada and Vietnam’s incursion into Cambodia, emphasizing that sanctions are not determined by ethnicity.

They also pointed out the inconsistency in Singapore’s approach, highlighting that the country only established diplomatic ties with South Africa after the end of apartheid.

Ms Sun admitted her limited knowledge of this history but promised to raise these examples with the MFA.

The session concluded with residents submitting a petition urging the government to impose sanctions on Israel.

Netizens criticize Singapore’s stance on Israel

Under a post by Monday of Palestine Solidarity on Instagram, netizens voiced their opinions on the recent dialogue between Punggol West residents and MP Sun Xueling regarding Singapore’s stance on Israel.

One user questioned Ms Sun’s knowledge of the situation in Palestine, asking, “Is she even aware of what’s happening at all?”

They argued that while Ms Sun claimed the scale of the conflict was different from the Russia-Ukraine war, the situation in Palestine is actually far worse.

The user criticized her for not using accurate terms to describe the crisis, suggesting she was avoiding terms like “mass murder,” “apartheid,” “genocide,” and “ethnic extermination.”

The commenter also pointed out historical context, referencing a New York Times article from June 20, 1899, titled “Conference of Zionists in Baltimore: Will Colonize Palestine,” to emphasize the long-standing nature of the issue.

They concluded by stating, “Humanitarian aid does NOT stop the killing,” highlighting the need for stronger action.

Another user expressed frustration, calling the government’s response “absolutely unacceptable.”

They criticized Singapore for being one of the top exporters of weapons, which are “being used and tested on Palestinians,” while only offering humanitarian aid and failing to take meaningful action against Israel.

One commenter highlighted the disparity in Singapore’s response, noting that the government had immediately sanctioned Russia when the war in Ukraine began, yet after a year of violence in Palestine, no similar action had been taken against Israel.

Another user challenged the common narrative that the Israel-Palestine conflict is an ancient issue that spans thousands of years, calling it a “lazy excuse for inaction.”

They stressed that Israel has been in violation of international law since its illegal occupation of Palestine and the establishment of apartheid in 1967.

Some users expressed skepticism about Singapore’s ability to take a stronger stance. One commenter argued that Singapore depends on its Zionist allies for security, stating that any action against Israel could jeopardize the country’s safety.

They pointed to the historical ties between Singapore and Israel, particularly in building Singapore’s military, and concluded that speaking out against Israel would endanger Singapore’s security and stability.

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IMDA to probe Singtel’s island-wide landline outage of 8 October

The Infocomm Media Development Authority (IMDA) is investigating Singtel’s island-wide landline outage on 8 October, emphasising its commitment to thoroughly examining any public telecommunications service interruption. A Singtel spokesperson described the outage as an “isolated incident,” adding that there is “no evidence to suggest it is a cyber-related event.”

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On 8 October 2024, a significant landline outage affected Singtel customers across the island.

According to Lianhe Zaobao, the Infocomm Media Development Authority (IMDA) stated that it takes any public telecommunications service interruption seriously and will investigate the incident thoroughly.

In a Facebook update at 8:25 PM on the same day, Singtel announced that its fixed voice services had been fully restored.

The telecommunications provider expressed its apologies for the disruption and the inconvenience caused to customers.

Earlier, the disruption also impacted emergency call services, affecting both the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) and the Singapore Police Force (SPF).

Members of the public experiencing difficulties reaching emergency numbers 995 or 999 were advised to send an SMS to SCDF at 70995 or SPF at 70999.

Both SPF and SCDF later reported on 7PM that the earlier disruption affecting the 995 and 999 emergency hotlines has been resolved.

The authorities assured the public that they could resume using these hotlines for emergencies and expressed gratitude for the public’s understanding during the outage.

Earlier that day, around noon, multiple users reported difficulties making calls through landlines on Singtel’s official Facebook page and X (formerly Twitter), including problems with office lines.

A check on Downdetector revealed a surge in outage reports for Singtel beginning around 2 PM, peaking at 2,781 complaints. By 5 PM, the number of reports had decreased to over 500.

According to the feedback on Downdetector, most of the problems faced by users pertain to landlines, which matches the responses from netizens on social media platforms.

Major institutions were also affected by the outage. KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital (KKH), the National Cancer Centre, and Changi General Hospital (CGH), all under SingHealth, alerted the public to the disruption.

By approximately 6:30 PM, all three institutions confirmed that their telephone services had been restored.

Additionally, Singapore’s three local banks—DBS, UOB, and OCBC—reported similar issues with their customer service hotlines during the outage.

According to CNA, a spokesperson from Singtel described the outage as an “isolated incident” and stated that there is “no evidence to suggest it is a cyber-related event.”

 

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